Saturday, January 31, 2009

Traveling Solo


There's something inherently rewarding about traveling by yourself, beyond all of the obvious reasons. The people that you meet and experiences you have when you put yourself out there on a limb are like nothing you would ever imagine if you were in a group of friends. I find that almost everywhere I go, people are genuine and more accepting when I am by myself. Almost instantly a bond can be formed from a mutual understanding of desire to see the world for what it is, and truly experience a place. So often you see people traveling in large groups of friends, bringing along the comforts of the familar with them. These people miss the entire essence of traveling due to the fact that they merely "see" a place, rather then experience a it and get to know its culture. When traveling alone, it becomes clear to other people that you aren't trying to hide who you are. Instead you make yourself vulnerable in a way that is respected by everyone. I find that complete strangers are willing to go out of their way to be friendly and hospitable soely due to this fact alone. It becomes possible to truly take in your surroundings and enjoy exactly what it is you set out to achieve in the first place. A sort of self empowerment is with you at all times, as if anything is possible and nothing will stop you. You can go where you want, when you want, without having to compromise anything. You could be heading in one direction for awhile, meet some interesting people, and suddenly decided to turn around go right back where you came from. It is this freedom that provides inner peace and tranquility which makes traveling to new places so special. Key to the idea of traveling alone is being open to anything, willing to try new things and take risks, for in the end the pay off is unforgettable . Just take a look at the photo above of this desolate lineup in New Zealand. By getting to know some locals in an unfamilar area, I was able to enjoy this bliss with only a few other people for an afternoon of complete bliss.

Friday, January 30, 2009

Spontaneity is the spice in life

There's a lot to be said about having an open mind and going with the flow, especially when it comes to travel. Things in life rarely ever work out the way they are planned, and this is very evident when you are on the road. It's funny how people go through their life fighting and resisting change with every ounce of their being, when life itself is just a constant changing entity. I flew back to Australia yesterday afternoon after the past seven weeks visiting home in California for the holidays. It was my first time being back to California since January of 2008 and it was an unusual experience. Seeing my friends and family was great, but this time things were definitely different. After being away for so long it was no longer the same place I remember it being in my mind, yet nothing was actually different; the change was within me. State of mind is something we all struggle to deal with and control, but for me, home now has a very stale sense to it. I no longer feel attached to the things I once did, or the desire I once had to live there. Living in the same place, working the same job day in and day out, is, in itself, resisting change. That routine that we all think we need to feel "normal" is in actuality, a self-imposed imprisonment that doesn't end until we "retire." The funny thing is, that people actually think when they retire that suddenly then, they will start living their life the way they've always wanted to. At that point the conditioning of the "civilized" world has taken control of your ability to do so, let alone old age preventing you from enjoying whats left of your life. What is your idea of "success" in the world today? Working and saving money to buy a home with a nice car and fancy clothes? For most, maybe so. For me personally, success is doing what you want when you want, without being concerned with what the rest of society thinks of it. When it comes down to it, in this world, everything can be taken away from you: your job, house, car, everything; except your story, so I'm just trying to live a good one. The different people you meet, places you go, cultures and beliefs you come in contact with, and feelings you experience, is what life is all about. Its tragic that modern society is structured in a way that actually supresses these things in life that make us who we are and give us meaning in our life. I've never been one for schedules or strict plans, and this has allowed me the ability to adapt to any circumstance and actually embrace change in my life. As for right now, I am staying with some friends in Bondi beach in Sydney that I met randomly in Nicaragua back in 2004. Posted above is the view from their apartment that I woke up to this beautiful morning. Summer is in full swing, the sun is shining, and the weather is sweet. I think I'll head down to beach to enjoy the day and see where the ride takes me. -Baldo